You may start feeling that you miss him, or maybe you wanting him back. It is better both for you to rekindle your romance again. But, before reconciling your relation, you should make sure that what you want. Do you really want him back, or you just cannot bear anyone else with him.
Is it jealousy or you really want him back?
Before building your relation once again, you should make sure that you really want him back. Learn the difference between the jealousy and real want. You should confirm before running to build your relationship again. Take your time to make the right decision, there is nothing to hurry. Figure out whether you really want him back or not. Moving slowly is the best way to success in making proper decisions.
You should know, when you get back into a relationship, but you are not interested in him anymore, will make the situation more difficult. Sometimes, getting back in relationship become success as the romance is rekindled once again.
Most of the girl doesn’t want to get back to the relation with her ex-boyfriend. On the other hand, they cannot think of another girl, who is taking your place. It happens, because you had a lot of sweet memories with him.
The past is the past always. It is better to forget the past painful memories with your ex- boyfriend. Let the brighter things lay ahead. If your ex-boy friend finds someone else, then don’t be depressed, you should also find out another handsome guy.
How do you be sure that you really want him?
There are many women who only want back their ex-boy friend, as they don’t want other girls with him. If you are not sure, whether you really want him back or not, ask the following questions to yourself. You will get the best answer in making decision whether you go back again or not.
- Do you really think that building relationship with him again will be good or not?
- Which stage gives you happiness? During relationship or after a relationship?
- Can you think about seeing him with someone else?
- Which will be a good decision? To stay with him or not to stay with him?
If you can figure out these questions, you can figure out your decision. You can be sure whether you really want him or not. Most of the girls experience just jealousy in that case. It is a normal attitude as you have still some love for him.
Don’t act on your jealousy. Getting back to him and telling him that you don’t want him with other girls, will make a complicated situation both for you. May be your life door will be closed forever for this fault. Forget the past, keep aside your jealousy.
Don’t keep a little bit of jealousy with you. Surely, you will reconnect your relation again with great love.